Reader Matter: Is My Ex in a Rebound Relationship?

Reader Matter: Is My Ex in a Rebound Relationship?

By Brad Browning

Breakup & Divorce Professional

It is Dan from North Carolina. I want your opinion regarding one thing. My ex and I also separated a few months ago. It was just like a mutual breakup where the two of us consented in the long run to get our split means, but she does not appear to be pleased in her brand new relationship. So I’m thinking, is she in a rebound relationship?

After having a breakup, it is common and perfectly normal to wonder whether it’s feasible to reunite together with your ex. This is certainly specially common whenever you had been usually the one who got dumped, though some individuals do feel “dumper’s remorse” and regret splitting up with somebody afterwards.

Rebound generally describes the chaotic, short-term period after having a breakup. A person’s emotions fluctuate crazily, swinging from calm optimism (“This is all for the best, and will work out OK”) to utter despair and deep misery (“My life is over during that wild time! I might do just about anything getting my ex back!”) and everywhere in between.

Rebound Vulnerability

Folks are susceptible through the rebound that is post-breakup since they can’t think directly.

Here is the duration whenever ideas that are stupid like texting your ex lover at the office, or calling them at two o’clock each morning to beg them to just just take you right straight back, look like guidelines. Consuming a whole bathtub of chocolate frozen dessert or planning financial obligation buying a brand new low rider you don’t absolutely need can also look like guidelines.

Common knowledge says that in this rough duration, people also enter into romantic relationships that aren’t good for them. They’ve been lonely and simply wish to be with somebody – anybody – and their requirements are lowered. Continue reading “Reader Matter: Is My Ex in a Rebound Relationship?”